Priority List

Priority:

The right to precede others in order, rank, or privilege.

The right to take precedence in obtaining certain supplies, services, facilities, etc., especially during a shortage.

Something given special attention.

In my early 20s, I worked at the airport. It was one of the most exciting jobs I have ever had. I was always meeting new people, the pace was extremely fast, and no two days were alike.

One of my responsibilities was accommodating VIP passengers and ensuring they had a pleasant experience while traveling with us.

One way to do this was to offer complimentary upgrades when possible. To do this, I had to place the VIP passengers on a priority list. Then, the computer determined how each person ranked based on several factors. Those higher on the list were more likely to get upgraded than those ranking lower.

The times that I was able to accommodate everyone on the list, I was delighted. There were, however, times I could only accommodate one or two.

This is why the priority list was so important. The list was not random. It was not even first come, first serve. Many factors determined who was higher on the list. (Frequent flyers, for example)

Okay Crystal, you used to work for the airport, you loved it, and you got to upgrade people…what’s your point?🤔

I’m glad you asked!

My point is everyone has a priority list in their lives, whether they are aware of it or not. We rank who is most important and who will get the available upgrades.

Today I want to challenge you to see where YOU rank on your priority list. Like really ask yourself where you rank in your own life and tell yourself the truth. Here are some questions to ask yourself:

• Do I really put myself first?
• Am I comfortable with showing up as my authentic self?
• Do I give myself the rest I need?
• Do I give myself quality things to eat?
• Do I surround myself with people who really love and care about me?
• Do I go after the things I really want?

These are just a few questions to ask yourself that will shed light on how you prioritize yourself.

If everyone else’s needs are always placed before your own, you need to be higher on your priority list. If you’re not giving yourself adequate rest (and understand you do not have to run yourself down to earn rest), you’re not high enough on your priority list.

Who gets the upgrade? When you have time, energy, and resources, do you give it away and only keep what’s left, if anything?

What do you get from you???

You’ve heard that you can’t pour from an empty cup. The goal is for your cup to be full. But the thing is, once your cup is full, what’s in the cup is for you. The overflow is what you share with others.

So if you reread the definition of a priority, notice that the second definition includes, “especially in times of shortage.” You are a finite resource. Your time is a finite resource. So you can’t just be out here giving everything to any and everybody.

You deserve special attention. You deserve premium treatment. You deserve top tier experiences. You deserve to be a VIP in your own life. That’s how I’m moving in these days and times. Like I always say, I only want the best for me.✨

So, honestly, where would you say you currently rank on your priority list?

I want to hear from you in the comments.

It’s okay if you realize you need to level up. You’re not alone. This is your reminder to get started prioritizing YOU. And as always, I’m cheering you on all the way. 🤩

Love, Crystal